Stanley Carl Waechter
May19,
1932 - July 12, 2007
Stanley was born on Mother’s Day in
New Burlington, Ohio, the youngest of four children.
His early years took place at the peak of the Great
Depression, By any comparison to modern times, life was
hard and conveniences were scarce, but his father was
one of few lucky enough to keep his steady job, working
as an engineer. Harry Waechter created many inventions
and held a number of patents.
Early on, Stanley displayed an
interest and talent in art and design. This was
encouraged by his parents who enrolled him in Saturday
art classes at the Cincinnati Museum of Art. Stanley
loved cars and machines and made many drawings of them.
He was influenced by his grandfather who lived with them
who was a talented painter, modeler and musician.
Stanley enjoyed the Texaco radio
broadcasts of classical music as a child and had a
lifelong love of music of all kinds from classical to
jazz. There was always music when Stan was around.
In 1952, he was drafted into the
Army and served for six months after which he was
honorably discharged. In 1955, Stanley completed a
degree in commercial arts from the Central Academy in
Cincinnati. At the age of 26, he enrolled at the
University of Cincinnati and got his B.S. degree in
Industrial Design. After which he got a job with
Burroughs Corporation in Detroit. He rented an
apartment near the Wayne State University campus where
he met and became friends with many Arabic students.
They introduced him to Arabic food and music which he
loved, and to the politics of the region including the
Palestinian Israeli conflict. Since then and until his
death, Stan worked tirelessly writing letters to the
newspapers and the legislators advocating for a just
solution to the Palestinian problem.
At one of the Arab students
gathering, Stan met a newly arrived Palestinian lady who
had just enrolled in the Master’s program at Wayne State
to study Cell Physiology. Stan fell in love and
subsequently pursued and married Diana Musallam in
November of 1966. Shortly thereafter, Stanley started
working at General Motors as an Industrial
Designer in their Creative
Services Division and stayed there until his retirement
in 1993.
Stan passed away suddenly of a
heart attack in his garden on a beautiful summer
evening.
He is survived by his wife of 40
years, Diana, his son Brian, wife Tonya and their
children Tristan 10, and Trevor 7, and by his son Neal,
wife Ana and two year old daughter Elena, and older
brother Paul and his family. A memorial service was
held for Stan on July 17, in Elk Grove, California.
Stanley was devoted to his wife,
children and grandchildren and gave them all his love
and support. He was extremely knowledgeable about many
subjects, deeply philosophical and ethical and always
practiced in his daily life those values he held dear.
He was devoted to the pursuit of peace and justice in
the world and together with his wife Diana and others
created a Peace Garden in Troy, Michigan. Stanley will
be deeply missed, but rather than mourn the absence of
the flame, let us celebrate how brightly it burned.
The family asks that all memorials
be made to the Ladah Foundation.